If you ask someone "what's the problem in that church or with that person or marriage, job, family etc.?" often it not hard to break down the problem we see.
Growing up I had friends that were always negative about the people around them. Sometimes it was annoying being around my old friends because they seemed to only see the problems and others didn't. Sometimes these problems were true and most of the times they were just bickering and not true.
But I do believe we can see the problem when others can't. And I also believe that is for a number of reasons.
1. For you to be the solution. Don't add to the problem but try to subtract the problem you see.
2. For you to learn from them and not to criticize about. With every problem is must be an attitude of teachability. Stop acting like you know everything about the problem but act as if there a lesson for you get a hold of.
3. For you to benefit from the problem.
Problems are gateways to victories. You can pass them others when all they see is defeated problems.
So next time when all you see is a problem. Don't look at it as a defeated problem but look at the problem as a gateway to victory towards maturing adult that taking responsibility.
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